The lady who says she took Prince Harry’s virginity has defined why she determined to go public, saying the Duke of Sussex’s e-book turned her secret right into a “ticking timebomb”.
In an interview with The Sun, revealed on Sunday, UK time, Sasha Walpole revealed herself to be the “older woman” who had intercourse with Harry behind a busy pub in 2001.
Ms Walpole, 40, is 2 years older than Harry, who was 17 on the time of their coupling.
In his memoir Spare, the Duke described it as a “humiliating” episode and mentioned the unnamed lady had handled him like a “young stallion”.
“I mounted her quickly, after which she spanked my ass and sent me away,” he wrote.
“One of my many mistakes was letting it happen in a field, just behind a very busy pub. No doubt someone had seen us.”
Ms Walpole mentioned her fears for her personal privateness spurred her to come back ahead.
“I was shocked, and feel like he has brought this to my door,” Ms Walpole advised The Sun, describing her response to Harry describing their encounter in his e-book.
“I don’t understand why he went into such detail. He could have said he lost his virginity and left it at that. But he described how it happened, in a field behind a pub.
“That’s fine if you’re not the other person involved. But if you’re me, then you suddenly feel as if your world is getting a little bit smaller. He has done this to my privacy.
“I was going to keep my head down and not talk about it. If it wasn’t in the book, none of this wouldn’t be happening.
“I can sit quietly and hope it goes away, but then it is like a ticking timebomb, and you’re looking over your shoulder.”
Ms Walpole mentioned her telephone began to ping with dozens messages when the story of how Harry misplaced his virginity turned public data, a lot of them from individuals she hadn’t spoken to in years.
Worried about being approached, she went to a lawyer for recommendation.
“So many people realised it was me. I was shocked and didn’t know what to think. I hoped it’d go away but it didn’t,” she mentioned.
“The issue is that people know, because they were part of that night or part of our original social circle. Possibly, Harry could have thought about that before publishing. He could have found me if he’d tried.
“I wanted to take control of this before it took control of me. I kept it a secret for more than 21 years, because it came from a good place. It was just a nice, funny thing that happened when we were teenagers after a night of shots.
“I would never have talked about it if the book hadn’t been published. I’m not that sort of person. I don’t really seek fame or fortune. If I was going to talk about it, I could have done so a long time ago.
“When it came out, I was like, ‘Just hide, it can be fine.’ I thought it might blow over. But then I gradually started hearing stories. So I had to take a degree of control and tell my story, in my words, with all the correct context and detail.
“There was talk that the woman was some kind of supermodel. I am not a supermodel. We were just friends.”
Recounting the tryst to The Sun, Ms Walpole mentioned “one thing just quickly led to another”.
“I am the woman who took Harry’s virginity,” she mentioned.
“It was wham-bam between two friends. The sex was passionate and sparky because we shouldn’t have been doing it.”
She mentioned the pair had been ingesting a number of photographs of tequila on the Vine Tree Inn in Wiltshire as a part of an occasion to have a good time her nineteenth birthday. They went outdoors for a cigarette, and ended up on the bottom collectively.
“It was exciting that it was happening the way it was. We were away for 15 minutes, but the sex was about five minutes,” she recalled.
“We didn’t set out to do it and it wasn’t premeditated. He was young. We had been purely friends, and it was a little bit naughty, in the sense that it shouldn’t have been happening.”
The revelation in Harry’s e-book precipitated an avalanche of hypothesis about who the lady concerned may be, with most individuals assuming she was considerably older than him. As it occurs, Ms Walpole was solely 19 on the time.
Actress Liz Hurley, now 57, was even requested whether or not she was the individual in query throughout an interview.
“Not me. Not guilty. Ha!” Hurley responded.
“No. Not me. Absolutely not.”
In her interview with The Sun, Ms Walpole joked about being described as an older lady and mentioned she’d shared fun with associates about it.
“I laughed about the older woman thing,” she mentioned.
“He could have been throwing people off the scent or thought I was older, but we were young … maybe he thought I was an older woman. When you’re 16 and somebody is nearly 19, you probably are seen as the older woman.”
She met her husband, Ian, later in 2001. They now have two youngsters collectively.
“Ian is quite laid back, so he wasn’t bothered,” mentioned Ms Walpole.
She mentioned she harboured no bitterness for Harry, who was “entitled to write what he wants”, although she hoped outing herself would cease individuals from speculating about different ladies.
“With the other women who have been mentioned, I guess that’s the nature of the beast,” she mentioned.
“But it would have kept going until people found me if I hadn’t spoken about it.”
Source: www.news.com.au