Viewers see his cheeky Irish charming aspect on the helm of the Studio 10 morning present however Tristan MacManus says behind the scenes he has coped with a number of brushes with loss of life and melancholy.
The 40-year-old former dancer from Bray says his actress spouse Tahyna and three youngsters now give him a purpose to dwell.
Opening up a few string of coronary heart assaults, emergency operations and automotive crashes, MacManus now takes it on the chin.
“I’ve always had a mentality that stuff happens to ya. And you can’t control things that happen to you but you can try and control how you react to it. Things are very different now. I have a positive outlook on most things but I am not ‘happy, happy’ all the time,” he stated.
Stopped in his tracks in his twenties, he admits he wasn’t fussed which manner life or loss of life went.
“They happened at different times in my life,” he says. “I had a heart attack in Vegas in my late twenties. At that time I was like ‘yeah, I could probably explain that one’, you know. It was at a time when I was like ‘whatever happens, happens’ – I wasn’t in a good space at the time. If I got through it, great. If I didn’t get through it, great. That was just how I felt at the time.”
When his appendix burst he admits “again that was like ‘whatever happens, happens’.” In between there have been a few automotive crashes “that weren’t great”.
“The one that really hit me was the last heart attack. I had the other one four years ago. That one hit hard because I was a father at the time and a husband at the time. That scared me,” he stated. “It’s just one of those things right now.”
On prime of all of it – his greatest hurdle has been the demons in his head.
“I’m like most people, I fight through depression a lot, like a lot of people. Sometimes it creeps up on people. That’s why it is there. What I have embraced now, which I didn’t earlier, is trusting the people around me and myself to be open with them.”
The former Dancing With The Stars choose says his youngsters give him a purpose to remain sturdy and again himself.
“Like most people I have grown up with a ‘why?’ And also not feeling like you’re enough. That’s what I focus on now. The reason being is because I see how much my wife is and my daughter is and my boys are. The worst thing that could possibly happen in my life is that my kids grow up not feeling they are enough. That’s what I focus on now. You can’t instil that in someone if you don’t feel it within yourself. That’s my why. That’s my focus now. I might seem positive all the time but I’m struggling like a lot of people are. But that’s life, isn’t it.”
He likes to maintain household shut with tattoos of his spouse and youngsters’ names on his Gaelic tattooed physique. “I have one on my back. David Bowie, my dad’s favourite artist. It’s Starman which is his favourite song,” he provides.
MacManus is an unintended TV star. He jacked in his life as a TV dance professional for a brand new life in Australia which led to being a gardener and a tradie in WA.
“We moved to Australia, we’d fallen pregnant we were just about to have a family. I decided I’d figure out what to do when I got here. I had nothing,” he stated.
“I stayed in Werribee where we were working on the solar farms. I absolutely loved it. Me and my mate Luke lived with a lovely lady Maria.
“I went back to landscape gardening which I love. I have been lucky enough to always appreciate what I am doing. You have to earn a crust. My priorities had changed. I had a family to look after.”
Channel 10 then invited him to be a dancer on Dancing With The Stars earlier than its transfer to Channel 7. But he rejected it and stated he wished to be a choose.
“I have no fear or shame in finding something that I want to do and contacting them and letting them tell me ‘no’ or how I can do it,” he says.
After Dancing With The Stars ended throughout the COVID pandemic lockdowns, MacManus discovered himself shovelling manure once more earlier than he was invited for a display screen check to be a bunch on Studio 10. He blagged his manner via to success.
“I got a phone call saying ‘what are you doing?’ I said: ‘I’m literally shovelling s….’ in someone’s back garden. They said ‘I want you to remember this phonecall, this is the phone call offering you a contract to work at Channel 10’. I said ‘yep’ and hung up.”
As for dealing with TV stardom he says, “People look at television and dancing as not a real job. That’s not the reality. It’s very hard.”
Luckily he flies beneath the radar off digicam to take pleasure in his hobbies and household. “I am very unassuming. I can float through people without people recognising me.”
And does he have any ideas for his Sunrise rival, newcomer Matt Shirvington on learn how to deal with a scorching seat and difficult prospects?
“I can’t give any tips to anyone. We’re all insecure,” he admits. “Everyone is insecure with everything and as soon as you get to a position, is when you start hearing from absolutely everyone about who can do it better, who should be doing it and why you shouldn’t be. That’s part of life. That’s the thick skin you have to grow. I’ll be nice to whoever is nice to me and if they aren’t, f-em!”
Source: www.perthnow.com.au
